Stop searching, start being

“Far too many people are looking for the right person instead of trying to be the right person. – Gloria Steinem

What are you doing to be the right person?”
That’s a post I copied from a page on FB called “Fearless”, and it’s all about getting people, especially men, to get over they fear of talking to people they find attractive.

Everywhere I look I see people judging, assuming, finding fault, and being negative. It’s like y’all are wearing glasses that make everything look like shit, and you’re just okay with it.
Well guess what, buttercup? You’re a fucking moron, and i’m calling you out.
STOP looking for the negative.
STOP finding fault in everyone.
STOP making assumptions about people.

START being the very best version of you that you can be. Work on it every day.
START looking for the positive things in life.
START treating people the way you want to be treated.

There’s a reason i’m calm, clear, and direct with people; it’s because I want people to be calm, clear, and direct with me.
There’s a reason i’m not looking for the ‘perfect woman’; it’s because I know she’ll come along when the time is right.
There’s a reason i’m always moving forward; it’s because I don’t live in the past, and the person I used to be is not who I want to be forever.

Stop trying to find the perfect person, and, what’s far worse, STOP TRYING TO FORCE PEOPLE TO FIT INTO YOUR BOX!

Focus on being the best version of you that you can possibly be, chip away at yourself every day, and you’ll find what I found: Happiness. Joy. Contentment. Satisfaction.

I’m not in competition with you, i’m not out to be better than you. I’m out to be better than who I was yesterday, nothing more, nothing less.
If you want it to be about who is better, then bring it. I’ve already won because you made it about something it’s not.
Make life about living, enjoying, and being the positive energy you seek.

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