Along the lines of being insulted, berated, or otherwise poorly treated from shitty women, I hear a common thread of insult: “No wonder you’re single!”. LOL.
Actually, it’s funny you mention that. See, i’m perfectly content to remain single, alone, by myself, for my entire life. The reality is that I can hire someone, or someones, to do whatever needs to be done in my life, and I can go to a bar and pick up a woman to enjoy for the night should I decide to.
One of these days i’ll finally get a dog, too, so then i’ll never be alone. I got a dog in December of 2017, and yes, she’s the cutest thing ever! (That’s a side joke, because dogs are awesome, and the trade off is that often times they just won’t leave you alone).
I’m content to stay single, to keep grinding, to continue honing my crafts, my life, my dreams, my goals, and my desires, all by myself. I don’t ‘need’ a woman, I don’t need to be in a relationship, to be married; I don’t have to have a girlfriend, and that’s what seems to scare weak women the most.
I’ve always been a self-sufficient person, and i’m constantly pushing myself to continue growing in self-sufficiency. I know me; i’m dependable, reliable, honest, trustworthy, and I do what I said I was going to do.
I do enjoy having a girlfriend, when she’s my ‘kind of gal’, and I enjoy being in a relationship, when it’s positive, and uplifting, and causes growth while offering peace. I would like to have a wife one day, but in my mind, there is no greater commitment I will ever make than to ask a woman to marry me, to be my wife, and that is a commitment I do not take lightly.
When she finally does come along, she will know, not because I said so, but because I show her every day, that I am hers, and hers alone, forever, and there will be no room, no chance, no opportunity for stupid shit. Yes, problems will arise, and yes, conflict will come upon us, but she will know, without ever having a doubt, that we are together, always, and there will be no ‘divide and conquer’ between us. I expect the same in return, and as I have high standards for myself, so must she.
Until she comes along, I am content to be single, and no one will shame me for that.